Being Human

Throwing Stones in Our Glass Houses
I hurt my son once and had to take him to the hospital afterward. When the little person I love…
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Is a Child More Important Than a Gorilla?
By now you probably know the story: A four-year-old boy crawled through some bushes and fell 15 feet to the…
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Do We Need Marriage?
Julia asked: “I’m one year post-divorce and still grappling with the idea of ever marrying again. I used to feel…
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The Life Blueprint
“All models are wrong. Some are useful.” – Faris Yakob … The Life Blueprint® is a lottery system which varies…
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New Things and Places Make You Grow and I’m Almost 1% of the Way There
Even though I lived in three different states growing up, I didn’t understand that people in other places were different…
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The Other Law of Attraction: Self-Worth and Gender Identity in a Mixed-Up World
What do women want? I think many guys started kicking the question around long before possessing the intellectual capacity to…
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Our Marriage is a Steam Train
Our marriage is a steam train. Like the old locomotives responsible for most long-distance travel and supply shipments from the…
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How to Feel Successful, Increase Self-Esteem and Eliminate Envy
I know a guy who almost never loses a game of pool. He’s one of my dad’s closest friends. He’s…
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What Matters More Than Your Relationships?
As a child dreaming about the future, I imagined myself in life scenarios I believed would make me happy. I…
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How I Avoided Bitterness After Divorce
Lilly asked: My main question is how did you keep yourself from becoming bitter toward life and women? Not all men…
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