June 2015

Something About the Gay Marriage Ruling Doesn’t Feel Right
“Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.” – Mark Twain…
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Celibacy or Retirement STD Sex? You Decide.
The conversation began innocently enough, with me talking about Marathon, Fla. in the Keys as my favorite retirement location (subject…
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Check Out This Other Thing
A very funny person named Mandi Castle, author of the recently released “Dear Stephanie,” and self-proclaimed “worst sisterwife,” invited me…
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The Magical Power of Writing for Two Years (and a Bit About Marriage)
The date came and went without me noticing. June 21 was the two-year anniversary of my first post here. You…
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Staying Together For the Kids is a Good Enough Reason For Me
It was like I couldn’t catch my breath. I was afraid. I’d never felt anything like this before. I stood…
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The Accidental Vagina
I was falling asleep because it was late and I wake up early. “Talk soon,” I texted before plugging my…
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Our Souvenirs
The little bedroom down the hall from ours was a nice yellow. We didn’t know whether we were having a…
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Waiting for Next Time
One of the hardest parts of divorce is coping with the realization that you have to start over. Aside from…
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11 Books That Will Make You Smarter, Sexier and Awesomer
I read a lot. I do it for three reasons: I believe it’s the most-efficient way to get smarter. I’m…
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What If You Did It This Way?
Maybe he thought I was being a silly liberal hippy when I said all anyone really wants is to be…
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