October 2016

The Thing Divorced Parents Fear Most
When people experience divorce, several life changes happen at once, often compounding an already-excruciating time for those involved. First, your partner…
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We Should Stop Blaming Marriage for Our Problems
“I’m never getting married! Everybody who does just ends up miserable!” Sometimes you’ll hear people call marriage a contrived social…
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Maybe Jesus Was a Lousy Carpenter
I don’t know whether things like building inspectors or mechanisms for people to leave positive and negative customer reviews existed in…
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I Am the Monster You Should Be Afraid Of
How far back can you remember? I’m pretty sure I can remember moments when I was 3. We must have…
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Do You Want to Dance? Or Do You Want to Dance?
I’m probably a sucky dancer. Like, to people who evaluate dance quality. When I was a little kid there were…
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Writing a Letter Won’t Convince Him to Stay, and Your Life Won’t Be Better if He Does
My heart was in the right place, but I think maybe I got it wrong when I tried to write…
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The Times When Wives Owe Husbands Sex
I haven’t read the statutes or consulted an attorney, but it’s conceivable to me that a wife could owe her…
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We Interrupt This Broadcast
  Hey guys. I’ve never written a Purpose Statement for MBTTTR, but if I ever do, I imagine it will…
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Guest Post: The Thing All Women Do That You Don’t Know About
Editor’s Note: I’m not going to hold men’s feet to the fire for finding women attractive, and acting like it.…
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Decent Men in Indecent Times: Rape, Sex & Locker Room Talk
Not long before my high school graduation, one of my friends said another one of my friends raped her. No…
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