April 2015

Marijuana, Bible Studies, and Bridge Construction
“Shit! I have to go.” Everything was hazy and surreal in the smoke-filled room. It’s because four of us just…
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How to Get Unstuck and Solve Problems
The most valuable thing in the world is a good idea. Sometimes we think up something fantastic and find out…
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A Time for Fighting
If I kill a pedestrian with my car while obeying all laws and cooperating with law enforcement, I am unlikely…
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The Human Experience
I want to have sex with her. But I’m also afraid she’ll think I’m no good at it and tell…
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Your Kids Are Going to Get Divorced Unless We Fix This
I’ve written and published more than 400 posts here. Many of them are about divorce and marriage because divorce was…
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I Don’t Feel It ‘Til It Hurts Sometimes
Wives and girlfriends get upset with their husbands and boyfriends because it often seems as if the men in their…
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Yes, I Believe in Miracles
You can show me beheading videos and tell me the world is going to hell. You can tell me about…
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When Life Erodes Faith
Maybe it’s different when all you know is hopelessness. When warlords kidnap your children and force them to murder. When…
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Don’t Believe Everything You Hear
A convicted child rapist’s face was being shown on TV. He was 19, and convicted of molesting a 3-year-old girl…
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“Why the hell not?”
I’m reading The Catcher in the Rye for the first time. Holden Caulfield is the protagonist, and while we don’t…
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