Being Human

What I Should Have Said: Three Questions, Three Drinks Podcast
As we move both frighteningly and excitingly closer to book launch day (March 22, 2022), media interest in my work…
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Introducing My New Book “This is How Your Marriage Ends” Now Available for Preorder
I like the book cover. I hope you do too. (Image/HarperOne) On January 17, 2020, I was sitting in my…
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‘We Regret to Inform You’: A Story About Marriage and Book-Publishing Failure
I felt that little jolt of hope and nervous excitement in my chest when I saw the unopened email and…
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My Secret to Conquering Social Anxiety: Being Social
Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from my friend and colleague, Jenee Day. Jenee is a long-time anxiety sufferer…
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Pain is History’s Most Effective Influencer of Human Behavior
I don’t know how many times I had to be burned by the hot steam that escapes a simmering pot…
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It’s Time: I’m Launching a Podcast Soon
“How are you doin’?” “I’m great, I got that ‘excited/scared’ feeling. Like 98% excited, 2% scared. Or maybe it’s more.…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 3
Author’s Note: Before we begin, you should probably grab a spoonful of sugar. Because this isn’t going to taste very…
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Prison Break: Free Yourself By Taking the Red Pill
We’re going to talk a little red pill, blue pill. Not the way dudes who hate women sometimes talk about…
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The Secret Way Sex and Faith Collide to Destroy Your Marriage
Before we begin, let’s address three truths everyone should understand: No matter your spiritual beliefs, Christianity’s reach and impact has…
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I Do Not Care About That But I Do Care About You
Author’s Note: A very special thanks to the author of “The Secret Blind”, whose post with this very same title…
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