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Hi. I wrote a book which launched on March 22, 2022 in North America (March 31, 2022 in the United Kingdom), and that is more or less the coolest thing I’ve ever had the privilege to type. The book’s title is This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships (HarperOne). I hope some of you will want to read it.

This book encompasses many of the ideas and the writing voice found on my blog. And I tried to combine that with the ideas that I’ve developed in my relationship coaching work over the past few years to create something fresh and original.

The result is a book that I believe has a legitimate chance to help people think about and show up in their relationships more effectively for their partners, families, and themselves. This might sound like an asshole thing to write, but I would want to buy and read this book. And that was an important litmus test for me throughout this process.

It has heart, humor, and practical lessons to help people more effectively navigate relationship conflict. The book description calls it a “thoughtful, down-to-earth, contemporary guide to help partners identify and address relationship-killing behavior patterns in their own lives.”

Good people can be bad at relationships.

That was the story of my failed marriage. Maybe it’s the same story for some of you. But it doesn’t have to be.

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