The Other Law of Attraction: Self-Worth and Gender Identity in a Mixed-Up World
What do women want? I think many guys started kicking the question around long before possessing the intellectual capacity to…
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How to Brew Magic Sex Potion
Author’s Note #1 – This is intended for men focused on long-term monogamous relationships. It’s NOT for “pick-up artists,” who…
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Male Commenters Are From Mars, Female Commenters Are From Venus 
I can see both sides now in a way I never could before. I wish I could explain how, because…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 13
Sooooo. I’ve totally masturbated before. Maybe once. Or maybe 87 million times. Truthfully, I don’t want to talk about it…
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Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?
If we are referring to orgasms: Absolutely. I mean, you want her to like it and want to do it…
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She Feels Like Your Mom and Doesn’t Want to Bang You
Your mom probably doesn’t want to have sex with you. I work hard at not judging. Glass houses and whatnot.…
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Cracking the Code: 7 Ideas That Would Have Saved My Marriage
Sobbing wives write me all the time, desperate for answers. “I just read your posts and cried all the way…
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We Put Everything Ahead of Marriage and Then Wonder Why It Fails
Let’s play a game. Serious multiple-choice quiz: 1. What educational subject interests you most? A. History B. Math C. Science…
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They Don’t Love Your Kids, and They Shouldn’t Have To
The closest thing to a girlfriend I’ve had since getting divorced was someone I met in the first 10 months.…
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8 Christmas Gift Ideas That Can Save Your Marriage
If you’re a married man, celebrate Christmas and don’t already know what gift you’re giving your wife, I’m inclined to…
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