Relationships

It’s Not About Us
I’ve asked myself the question a bunch of times: How does some random guy in Ohio writing first-person stories about…
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Male Dishonesty & Divorce: Choosing the Man Card Over Succeeding ‘Like a Girl’
Men lie constantly. I think maybe everyone does. Sometimes, they are classic bald-faced lies: “I didn’t do it!” Even though…
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The Lazarus Theory: Bringing Relationships Back From the Dead
They say the opposite of love isn’t hate, but indifference. I don’t believe that. I think hate is love’s antonym.…
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The Worst Thing Wives Do
During our first year of marriage, my wife was so unhappy living in Florida that she wanted to move back…
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What Will I Tell My Son To Help Him Avoid Divorce?
Lynda asked: “My question for you is: what are you going to say to your son to teach him how…
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Do We Need Marriage?
Julia asked: “I’m one year post-divorce and still grappling with the idea of ever marrying again. I used to feel…
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‘This is why you shouldn’t get married’
Grumpy old divorced or unhappily married men say it a lot. They’re the guys complaining about their wives during the…
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The Other Law of Attraction: Self-Worth and Gender Identity in a Mixed-Up World
What do women want? I think many guys started kicking the question around long before possessing the intellectual capacity to…
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Our Marriage is a Steam Train
Our marriage is a steam train. Like the old locomotives responsible for most long-distance travel and supply shipments from the…
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I Won’t Be Your Ally Because You’re Probably Doing it Wrong Like Me
I got lazy. Lulled into complacency. No matter how many times I’ve experienced negative consequences due to my word choices…
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