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She Divorced Me Because I Was Nicer to Strangers Than I Was to Her
I was usually nicer to strangers than I was to my wife. People I didn’t know and would never see…
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5 Sales and Writing Secrets That Could Save Your Marriage (and Make Your Relationships Thrive)
Couples struggle in relationships because they don’t know how to talk to each other. There are other reasons. But that’s…
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On a Personal Note
Hey. I felt like writing to you, instead of another new version of the things I almost always write. I’m…
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We Can’t Always Get What We Want, But if We Try Sometimes…
You and outside forces are engaged in a never-ending dance—working in harmony, or against each other—to motivate your spouse or…
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The Strangers We Live With: Maybe Birth Control, Food & Aging Dooms Our Relationships
Even the most-honest people lie sometimes. When we love or even just like someone, the last thing we want to…
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What Screws Us Up Most in Life
There’s at least one missing child. A beautiful little thing I would love intensely. Maybe this would be the first…
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What’s Next For MBTTTR?
“Shit or get off the pot,” is a fairly common idiom where I’m from. Aside from evoking troubling images of…
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The Thing Divorced Parents Fear Most
When people experience divorce, several life changes happen at once, often compounding an already-excruciating time for those involved. First, your partner…
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We Should Stop Blaming Marriage for Our Problems
“I’m never getting married! Everybody who does just ends up miserable!” Sometimes you’ll hear people call marriage a contrived social…
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I Am the Monster You Should Be Afraid Of
How far back can you remember? I’m pretty sure I can remember moments when I was 3. We must have…
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