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A very funny person named Mandi Castle, author of the recently released “Dear Stephanie,” and self-proclaimed “worst sisterwife,” invited me…
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Waiting for Next Time
One of the hardest parts of divorce is coping with the realization that you have to start over. Aside from…
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“Be Yourself” is Great Advice We’re Often Too Scared to Follow
Sometimes people tell you to “just be yourself” because they like you and assume other people will, too. They say…
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Advice for Women “In That Place”
Tracy asks: Do you have advice for women who are in “that place”? You know… The place where you still…
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Two Years Later
I always thought anniversaries were a little dumb. I don’t mean celebrating wedding anniversaries or birthdays. And I don’t mean…
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How to Be More Attractive
When you get divorced, you’re forced to say a lot of goodbyes. One day, I had a brother- and sister-in-law.…
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Good People Ruin Marriage
Any time I’d hear about a couple getting a divorce, I always assumed one of them did something bad. I’d…
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Ask Me Things, Please
In an effort to evolve this blog and maybe have a little fun or some great conversation, I launched a…
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The Secret to Life and Marriage
No. Not again. It’s a dull, pulsing pain that starts in my stomach and runs to the bottom of the…
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The Thing About Stepparents
My parents divorced when I was 4, and twice a year all the way through high school, my parents met…
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