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‘This is why you shouldn’t get married’
Grumpy old divorced or unhappily married men say it a lot.
They’re the guys complaining about their wives during the…
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New Things and Places Make You Grow and I’m Almost 1% of the Way There
Even though I lived in three different states growing up, I didn’t understand that people in other places were different…
Our Marriage is a Steam Train
Our marriage is a steam train.
Like the old locomotives responsible for most long-distance travel and supply shipments from the…
It Doesn’t Jive Because We’d Just Assume Do Things the Wrong Way
Donkey wrote: “Matt has a post about leaving his crying wife in the hospital after giving birth/having a C-section. Lisa…
I Won’t Be Your Ally Because You’re Probably Doing it Wrong Like Me
I got lazy.
Lulled into complacency. No matter how many times I’ve experienced negative consequences due to my word choices…
The Two Paths to Solving Divorce: Which Will We Choose?
There are two ways to solve society’s divorce crisis.
One is pretty easy, which is great! We like easy things…
What Matters More Than Your Relationships?
As a child dreaming about the future, I imagined myself in life scenarios I believed would make me happy.
I…
Who is Worthy of Your Love?
monthemoon asked (read the full comment here): “Hi Matt! I’ve been reading your blog for a few months now, just…
How I Avoided Bitterness After Divorce
Lilly asked: My main question is how did you keep yourself from becoming bitter toward life and women? Not all men…
How to Brew Magic Sex Potion
Author’s Note #1 – This is intended for men focused on long-term monogamous relationships. It’s NOT for “pick-up artists,” who…