Being Human

Divorced Parenting Requires a New Kind of Love
Oreoanonymous asked: I have been watching the struggle of my mother’s partner from his point of view, with only small…
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Hey! Stop “Bob Rodgersing” My Pregnant Wife!
Author’s Note: Sexual assault isn’t funny. And if Bob Rodgers were to ever “Bob Rodgers” the wrong person, he could…
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I’m Not Special and It’s Okay
I’m going to die and no one will care. I don’t mean “no one,” like zero people. Maybe someone will…
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Do You Want to Know the Secret, Too?
Everyone wants to know the secret. But it seems like no one knows it, and if they do, no one’s …
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Something About the Gay Marriage Ruling Doesn’t Feel Right
“Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.” – Mark Twain…
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Celibacy or Retirement STD Sex? You Decide.
The conversation began innocently enough, with me talking about Marathon, Fla. in the Keys as my favorite retirement location (subject…
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Check Out This Other Thing
A very funny person named Mandi Castle, author of the recently released “Dear Stephanie,” and self-proclaimed “worst sisterwife,” invited me…
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The Magical Power of Writing for Two Years (and a Bit About Marriage)
The date came and went without me noticing. June 21 was the two-year anniversary of my first post here. You…
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Staying Together For the Kids is a Good Enough Reason For Me
It was like I couldn’t catch my breath. I was afraid. I’d never felt anything like this before. I stood…
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The Accidental Vagina
I was falling asleep because it was late and I wake up early. “Talk soon,” I texted before plugging my…
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