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The 3 Tiers of Lying and How Well-Intentioned Lies Can Still Destroy Relationships
How many times have you lied to people you genuinely love and respect in the past few days? If someone…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 4
Imagine a pie chart. But not the kind with only a few slices like you might see in classroom presentations…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 2
You’re not going to like this, but you probably shouldn’t marry your girlfriend or boyfriend. Seriously. You know how it…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 1
You’re in danger. You don’t know you’re in danger because it doesn’t feel scary right now. That’s both good and…
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The Real Reason Why Women Leave Men
“Hey Matt! You’re a big, stupid idiot! “How far do you want us to bend over backward to excuse women’s…
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I Do Not Care About That But I Do Care About You
Author’s Note: A very special thanks to the author of “The Secret Blind”, whose post with this very same title…
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7 Relationship Questions People Are Secretly Asking (and Maybe a Few Answers)
Thousands of people find Must Be This Tall To Ride articles every day because of questions they asked the internet.…
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My 9-Year-Old Accidentally Explained Why His Mom Divorced Me
“What do you want to have for dinner tomorrow?” My wife asked me that a lot and I didn’t like…
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Why I Think Most Married People Get Bored and Stop Wanting Each Other
Author’s Note: I’m not a doctor. I’m not much of an expert on anything. But I’m curious, and I think…
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Why Nonsense and Choosing the Wrong Thing Can’t be Ignored
“Feelings don’t matter.” I don’t think anyone currently or formerly close to me would accuse me of heartlessness, but I’ve…
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