Dating

The Marriage Paradox
They had a chance encounter on 5th Avenue in New York City. The boy and the girl in the movie…
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You Don’t Have to Get Married, So Maybe You Shouldn’t
Frank: “Hey, I just want to thank you one last time for being here. It’s the best day ever.” Beanie:…
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The Cancer of Misunderstanding
Remember when we were kids? Afraid of getting on the big roller coasters. Afraid of jumping off the high-dive at…
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Safety and Trust in Relationships: Those Words Don’t Mean What You Think They Mean
Author’s Note: I think the #1 problem in the world is how poorly humans manage their relationships. Even if you…
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How to Be Comfortable Alone on Valentine’s Day
If I’m hospitalized or incapacitated from a car accident or emergency health problem, my ex-wife will be the first person…
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The Power of Understanding
Person #1: “I love the way the red pomegranates, orange oranges and yellow bananas pop in this photo.” Person #2:…
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Is He the One?: How to Know Whether You Should Marry Him
I used to leave a drinking glass by the kitchen sink instead of putting it in the dishwasher, and then…
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How to Determine Your Worth as a Person
Let’s pretend I possess the world’s largest diamond collection. Because diamonds have high market value, I would be “worth” a…
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She Divorced Me Because I Was Nicer to Strangers Than I Was to Her
I was usually nicer to strangers than I was to my wife. People I didn’t know and would never see…
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5 Sales and Writing Secrets That Could Save Your Marriage (and Make Your Relationships Thrive)
Couples struggle in relationships because they don’t know how to talk to each other. There are other reasons. But that’s…
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