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You’re Right, Guys—You Can’t Make Women Happy
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When You’re Too Comfortable to Know You Shouldn’t Be
Sometimes I wonder whether I’ll die one day from a heart attack or cancer because of things I consume or…
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The Friday Reclamation Project
Five years ago today, I didn’t want to go home. Our entire lives, most of us look forward to weekends.…
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8 Ways Good People Invalidate Their Partners and Ruin Relationships
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Please Help Me Answer These Important Questions
Of the many questions sent to my email inbox (some of which go unanswered—I’m so sorry for that), there are…
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What to do When Your Spouse Isn’t Your Soulmate
The person you’re married to—or will marry one day—isn’t your soulmate. [Insert very dramatic orchestra music here.] It sucks, I…
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The Secret to Long-Term Compatibility in Dating and Marriage Isn’t How Alike We Are
com·pat·i·bil·i·ty noun a state in which two things are able to exist or occur together without problem or conflict. a…
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How Trying to ‘Fit In’ Can Ruin Your Life and Marriage
As far back as I remember, I was taught that some human behaviors are so bad that if you do…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 14
Because I failed to create any type of plan or structure to ensure preparation and acknowledgment of special occasions like…
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The Subtle Difference Between Shitty and Non-Shitty Husbands and Wives
The difference is so subtle that I didn’t recognize it until now. And now that I have, it isn’t hard…
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