Marriage

The Life Blueprint
“All models are wrong. Some are useful.” – Faris Yakob … The Life Blueprint® is a lottery system which varies…
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‘This is why you shouldn’t get married’
Grumpy old divorced or unhappily married men say it a lot. They’re the guys complaining about their wives during the…
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Our Marriage is a Steam Train
Our marriage is a steam train. Like the old locomotives responsible for most long-distance travel and supply shipments from the…
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It Doesn’t Jive Because We’d Just Assume Do Things the Wrong Way
Donkey wrote: “Matt has a post about leaving his crying wife in the hospital after giving birth/having a C-section. Lisa…
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I Won’t Be Your Ally Because You’re Probably Doing it Wrong Like Me
I got lazy. Lulled into complacency. No matter how many times I’ve experienced negative consequences due to my word choices…
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The Two Paths to Solving Divorce: Which Will We Choose?
There are two ways to solve society’s divorce crisis. One is pretty easy, which is great! We like easy things…
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How to Brew Magic Sex Potion
Author’s Note #1 – This is intended for men focused on long-term monogamous relationships. It’s NOT for “pick-up artists,” who…
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A Misdiagnosis Can Kill You
An infectious disease specialist who was suffering severe throat pain visited a doctor to figure out why. Acid reflux, his…
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Is Your Spouse Hurting You On Purpose?
Pain sucks. Some people enjoy the muscle burn after a hard workout because it feels like progress. Others like the…
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Do Bad Husbands Ever Really Change?
Blackolives wrote: “Found your Huffpo ‘dishes’ post earlier today. Still laughing at how an appalling number of people didn’t get…
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