Marriage

I Won’t Be Your Ally Because You’re Probably Doing it Wrong Like Me
I got lazy. Lulled into complacency. No matter how many times I’ve experienced negative consequences due to my word choices…
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The Two Paths to Solving Divorce: Which Will We Choose?
There are two ways to solve society’s divorce crisis. One is pretty easy, which is great! We like easy things…
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What Matters More Than Your Relationships?
As a child dreaming about the future, I imagined myself in life scenarios I believed would make me happy. I…
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How to Brew Magic Sex Potion
Author’s Note #1 – This is intended for men focused on long-term monogamous relationships. It’s NOT for “pick-up artists,” who…
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A Misdiagnosis Can Kill You
An infectious disease specialist who was suffering severe throat pain visited a doctor to figure out why. Acid reflux, his…
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Is Your Spouse Hurting You On Purpose?
Pain sucks. Some people enjoy the muscle burn after a hard workout because it feels like progress. Others like the…
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Do Bad Husbands Ever Really Change?
Blackolives wrote: “Found your Huffpo ‘dishes’ post earlier today. Still laughing at how an appalling number of people didn’t get…
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You Don’t Understand Me for the Same Reason Couples Divorce
I wrote a post exactly three months ago today which was so popular and relatable to the average married couple…
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Empathizing with Hitler: How Being Aware of This One Thing Can Save the World
Settle down, kids. I don’t mean it like THAT. I think I know why our relationships fail more than half…
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That Probably Doesn’t Matter
“What probably doesn’t matter?” Most things. Most things don’t matter. Whatever has you stressed. Whatever you’re doing instead of playing…
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