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Three Years From Now 
Sarah asked:  “How would you like to see your relationships evolved in the next three years?” … If form holds,…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 12
Sometimes you hear about some married guy banging his coworker or one of his wife’s friends or one of his…
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The Things That Matter
One of my favorite scenes in one of my favorite shows had a man sitting on the edge of a…
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Help Me Find a Partner
My wife would get frustrated with me because sometimes I don’t finish things. It’s a pattern that reemerges in my…
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The Ghost Upstairs
On Tuesday, I came home late at night to an empty house and heard footsteps coming from my upstairs bedroom…
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The Human Experience
I want to have sex with her. But I’m also afraid she’ll think I’m no good at it and tell…
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Your Kids Are Going to Get Divorced Unless We Fix This
I’ve written and published more than 400 posts here. Many of them are about divorce and marriage because divorce was…
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Don’t Believe Everything You Hear
A convicted child rapist’s face was being shown on TV. He was 19, and convicted of molesting a 3-year-old girl…
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Advice for Women “In That Place”
Tracy asks: Do you have advice for women who are in “that place”? You know… The place where you still…
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Two Years Later
I always thought anniversaries were a little dumb. I don’t mean celebrating wedding anniversaries or birthdays. And I don’t mean…
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