How Marital Affairs Happen: The Beautiful Stranger I Wanted to Sleep With While I Was Married
Because I am sometimes a walking cliché who struggles with controlling negative emotion, I found myself sitting at a bar…
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No, the Affair Didn’t Cause the Divorce
Sometimes, a married person has an affair, and everyone screams: “Oh my God, Roger and Beth got divorced because he/she…
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The Magic Boner
Men frequently demonstrate wisdom and foresight to protect future interests. Saving money for retirement. Physical fitness and healthy eating. Career…
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Divorce is Bad, but Some Things are Worse
Divorce is bad. I wish it wasn’t a thing. I don’t mean Let’s ban divorce! I mean, I wish we…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 12
Sometimes you hear about some married guy banging his coworker or one of his wife’s friends or one of his…
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Wanting What You Can’t Have
Maybe we’re all doomed. More than half of our marriages fail already. Some of the ones still intact are brimming…
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How to Be Loyal
I cheated on her. I did. She’s engaged to be married to someone else. But still. We have a thing,…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 4
She’s going to leave you. And even if she doesn’t, she’s going to want to. She’s going to fantasize about…
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