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What Men Should Learn From Straight Women Choosing Other Women
I think women, with increasing frequency, are choosing romantic relationships with other women over men because of how poorly men…
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Our Political System is Broken for the Same Reason Our Relationships End
NOTE: I wasn’t planning to post today, and certainly not about politics, but my response to a comment on yesterday’s…
What’s Next For MBTTTR?
“Shit or get off the pot,” is a fairly common idiom where I’m from.
Aside from evoking troubling images of…
Commitment Phobia: When Relationship Avoidance Isn’t Dumb
I have commitment issues.
The classic kind, like when it’s easy to choose between Chicken, Seafood or Vegetarian at the…
The Thing Divorced Parents Fear Most
When people experience divorce, several life changes happen at once, often compounding an already-excruciating time for those involved.
First, your partner…
We Should Stop Blaming Marriage for Our Problems
“I’m never getting married! Everybody who does just ends up miserable!”
Sometimes you’ll hear people call marriage a contrived social…
Maybe Jesus Was a Lousy Carpenter
I don’t know whether things like building inspectors or mechanisms for people to leave positive and negative customer reviews existed in…
I Am the Monster You Should Be Afraid Of
How far back can you remember?
I’m pretty sure I can remember moments when I was 3. We must have…
Writing a Letter Won’t Convince Him to Stay, and Your Life Won’t Be Better if He Does
My heart was in the right place, but I think maybe I got it wrong when I tried to write…
It’s Okay to Miss Things Without Wanting Them Back
Because I’ve been incredibly blessed, my parents’ divorce when I was 4 was the worst thing to happen to me…