Health

When You’re Too Comfortable to Know You Shouldn’t Be
Sometimes I wonder whether I’ll die one day from a heart attack or cancer because of things I consume or…
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Safety and Trust in Relationships: Those Words Don’t Mean What You Think They Mean
Author’s Note: I think the #1 problem in the world is how poorly humans manage their relationships. Even if you…
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The Strangers We Live With: Maybe Birth Control, Food & Aging Dooms Our Relationships
Even the most-honest people lie sometimes. When we love or even just like someone, the last thing we want to…
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It Doesn’t Jive Because We’d Just Assume Do Things the Wrong Way
Donkey wrote: “Matt has a post about leaving his crying wife in the hospital after giving birth/having a C-section. Lisa…
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How to Brew Magic Sex Potion
Author’s Note #1 – This is intended for men focused on long-term monogamous relationships. It’s NOT for “pick-up artists,” who…
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A Misdiagnosis Can Kill You
An infectious disease specialist who was suffering severe throat pain visited a doctor to figure out why. Acid reflux, his…
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And Then I Woke Up Three Years Later
I spent the first year depressed and freaking out. I spent the second year using reading and writing to get…
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This is Why Your Life Sucks
“Could you explain a little more about what you mean by core values?” Lisa asked. Yes. I think most people,…
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The Secret About Men Most Women Don’t Know
The January 1956 edition of The Atlantic Monthly quotes The American Cancer Society as saying it “does not hold that…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 13
Sooooo. I’ve totally masturbated before. Maybe once. Or maybe 87 million times. Truthfully, I don’t want to talk about it…
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