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How I Avoided Bitterness After Divorce
Lilly asked: My main question is how did you keep yourself from becoming bitter toward life and women? Not all men…
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You Don’t Understand Me for the Same Reason Couples Divorce
I wrote a post exactly three months ago today which was so popular and relatable to the average married couple…
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The 4 Ways Women Can Help Save Marriages
Someone asked: “I dont have a failed marriage, but I do have a failed engagement. We were together for 6…
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This is Why Your Life Sucks
“Could you explain a little more about what you mean by core values?” Lisa asked. Yes. I think most people,…
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Bad News: You Two Probably Shouldn’t Be Dating
Your relationship is probably doomed. I’m sorry, but it’s true. I’m just playing the percentages. Half of all marriages will…
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The 4 Easy Steps for Getting Your Husband to Finally Listen to You
“How do I talk to my husband about this without making him defensive?” is a variation of the question I…
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The Scary Truth About Marriage and Divorce
It wasn’t hard to spot the guys barreling toward divorce. The message was camouflaged in symbolism, so it makes sense…
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Unidentified ADHD Probably Ended My Marriage
Okay. How do I explain this so people can understand? Favor request: Please set aside any preconceived notions, biases or…
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‘Got any suggestions for this exhausted wife?’
Exhausted Wife wrote: “So I recently read your open letter to shitty husbands, and actually got my husband to read…
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Is ‘Happy Marriage’ a Myth?
Deanna asked: “I’m sleeping alone after 5 years of marriage for the second time to the same man. Yes, the…
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