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I Might Be a Narcissist
Gill B. asked: “I usually hate psychobabble. What’s done (really done) is done, and all that. However on reading these…
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Why Couples Always Have the Same Fight
There are always exceptions to the rule. People who never smoke sometimes die of lung cancer, and some smokers live…
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‘I’ve Ruined My Marriage and My Wife Hates Me’
She liked to shower at night. The downstairs bathroom, just down the hall from the guest room I was sleeping…
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How to Start a Blog
Feral Wife asked: Hi Matt, I have truly enjoyed reading your blog. I found it shortly after asking my husband…
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Divorced Parenting Requires a New Kind of Love
Oreoanonymous asked: I have been watching the struggle of my mother’s partner from his point of view, with only small…
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Three Years From Now 
Sarah asked:  “How would you like to see your relationships evolved in the next three years?” … If form holds,…
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Advice for Women “In That Place”
Tracy asks: Do you have advice for women who are in “that place”? You know… The place where you still…
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Stop Pretending Superman Might Lose a Fair Fight
Antivan asks: “If Superman and Godzilla got into a fight, who do you think would win?”  … Superman. Want to…
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When One Becomes Two
Ali asks: You talk about the bottom being pulled out from under you a lot and how to move forward…
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How to Own Your Shit and Never Be a Victim Again
Eilene asks: “Have you ever thought (even if briefly or secretly) that your divorce was more her fault than yours?…
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