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My New Book Gets Published Today and I Really Hope You’ll Buy a Copy
You know, I never imagined writing non-fiction. Certainly not about divorce and relationships, and certainly not about me, personally.
But…
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Why I Think Most Married People Get Bored and Stop Wanting Each Other
Author’s Note: I’m not a doctor. I’m not much of an expert on anything. But I’m curious, and I think…
Why Nonsense and Choosing the Wrong Thing Can’t be Ignored
“Feelings don’t matter.”
I don’t think anyone currently or formerly close to me would accuse me of heartlessness, but I’ve…
You’re Right, Guys—You Can’t Make Women Happy
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Stop Waiting Until it’s Too Late
There was something I wanted to tell someone and I was just waiting for the right time. But then he…
When You’re Too Comfortable to Know You Shouldn’t Be
Sometimes I wonder whether I’ll die one day from a heart attack or cancer because of things I consume or…
Text Less, Speak More — Because the Break-Up Sauce Tastes Awful
I want you to imagine a person looking you directly in the eye and saying: “I’m going to kill you.”…
I Have No Idea What You’re Talking About; Do We Say What We Really Mean?
In January 2016, I published an article titled “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes by the Sink” which became…
What You Don’t Know Actually Can Hurt You
Disclaimer: I might be clinically insane.
That needs to be said upfront, because it’s mathematically possible and I have no…
How Marital Affairs Happen: The Beautiful Stranger I Wanted to Sleep With While I Was Married
Because I am sometimes a walking cliché who struggles with controlling negative emotion, I found myself sitting at a bar…
The Myth of the Nagging Wife — It’s Invisible Burns That Actually End Marriages
We sometimes hear husbands complain about their stupid, bitchy, nagging wives.
Some of them probably are married to petty, unkind…
