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My New Book Gets Published Today and I Really Hope You’ll Buy a Copy
You know, I never imagined writing non-fiction. Certainly not about divorce and relationships, and certainly not about me, personally.
But…
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The Coming Divorce Decline? I’ll Believe it When I See It
It looks and sounds like awesome news—like everything I want for my little boy and everyone else’s kids.
The divorce…
The Moments When Men Lose Their Wives
Our relationships work like a weight scale. Like a math equation.
With every person we know, there’s a ledger. There…
A Marriage Alternative: How Considering a Shift to Temporary Marriage Might Benefit Your Relationship
My brain and gut recoiled in disgust at the two words: Temporary Marriage.
They were hyperlinked in my email to…
Lonely in a Crowd: The Dangers of Modern Social Isolation on Health & Relationships
One of my newest friends and favorite people just moved about a four-hour drive away.
He might as well have…
What Would You Do if You Could Learn Almost Anything You Wanted To?
Somewhere in the world, there exists a person who could objectively and legitimately be called The Smartest Person on Earth.…
It’s Time: I’m Launching a Podcast Soon
“How are you doin’?”
“I’m great, I got that ‘excited/scared’ feeling. Like 98% excited, 2% scared. Or maybe it’s more.…
The 3 Tiers of Lying and How Well-Intentioned Lies Can Still Destroy Relationships
How many times have you lied to people you genuinely love and respect in the past few days?
If someone…
7 Steps to Rebuilding Trust in Your Relationship After Betrayal and Lies
Editor’s Note: The following is a guest post written by my friend Jay Pyatt, who mentors men struggling with various…
If Marriage Were an Airplane, Which Matters More—the Engine or the Wings?
I’m not an aviation expert or aeronautical engineer, but I’m pretty sure airplanes need their engines AND wings both to…
An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 4
Imagine a pie chart.
But not the kind with only a few slices like you might see in classroom presentations…