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Don’t Believe Everything You Hear
A convicted child rapist’s face was being shown on TV. He was 19, and convicted of molesting a 3-year-old girl…
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I Don’t Want to be a Divorce Blogger 
I don’t know what to write about. I don’t just mean right now, even though that’s also true. I mean…
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A Vacation From My Problems, Vol. 2
I’ve been away because I went on vacation and had fun and neglected this space and other life responsibilities. It…
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Maybe It’s Not a Popularity Contest
I want everyone to like me and when they don’t I sometimes obsess about it. I think I have it…
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Somebody’s Got to Feel This*
I was watching Benji with a group of family members in my grandparents’ living room the first time it happened.…
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Don’t Invite Me to Your Divorce Party
Because a bunch of people have been encouraging me to write for Huff Post Divorce, I’ve been spending more time…
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Rethinking the Problem
Because I’m keeping myself really busy with life problems, the holidays and self-imposed chores related to a business start-up, I’m…
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We Only Need 5% To Say Yes
I work in a cubicle and I’m 35 and my life is always going to feel a little crappy and…
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You Don’t Know Me
At work I write subject lines and email copy designed to get people to open my company’s emails and buy…
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This Isn’t Advice, and You Shouldn’t Take It
I do not write an advice column. I don’t want to be a life coach, I don’t think I’m smart…
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