Psychology

An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 4
Imagine a pie chart. But not the kind with only a few slices like you might see in classroom presentations…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 3
Author’s Note: Before we begin, you should probably grab a spoonful of sugar. Because this isn’t going to taste very…
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Prison Break: Free Yourself By Taking the Red Pill
We’re going to talk a little red pill, blue pill. Not the way dudes who hate women sometimes talk about…
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The Secret Way Sex and Faith Collide to Destroy Your Marriage
Before we begin, let’s address three truths everyone should understand: No matter your spiritual beliefs, Christianity’s reach and impact has…
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The Real Reason Why Women Leave Men
“Hey Matt! You’re a big, stupid idiot! “How far do you want us to bend over backward to excuse women’s…
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Why I Think Most Married People Get Bored and Stop Wanting Each Other
Author’s Note: I’m not a doctor. I’m not much of an expert on anything. But I’m curious, and I think…
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When You’re Too Comfortable to Know You Shouldn’t Be
Sometimes I wonder whether I’ll die one day from a heart attack or cancer because of things I consume or…
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What You Don’t Know Actually Can Hurt You
Disclaimer: I might be clinically insane. That needs to be said upfront, because it’s mathematically possible and I have no…
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How Marital Affairs Happen: The Beautiful Stranger I Wanted to Sleep With While I Was Married
Because I am sometimes a walking cliché who struggles with controlling negative emotion, I found myself sitting at a bar…
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8 Ways Good People Invalidate Their Partners and Ruin Relationships
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