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This Isn’t Advice, and You Shouldn’t Take It
I do not write an advice column.
I don’t want to be a life coach, I don’t think I’m smart…
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The Science of the Heart is Sometimes Lost on Me
I used to make my wife cry because I treated her like her feelings weren’t important.
“Just because you feel…
Lift Him Up
Maybe I was wrong.
When I said that men have the most power to save their marriages or long-term relationships.…
18 Months: A Post-Divorce Milestone
I panicked when I lost my family.
You freak because those you love are gone. You freak because you feel…
It Gets Better
I read my text message and laughed out loud because my ex-wife wrote something funny.
One of my friends at…
Ageism, Dating and More Ageism, Vol. 2
I’ve never been particularly controversial. I’m that way on purpose. I like to get along with everyone.
But I brushed…
Ageism, Dating and More Ageism
I’m an ageist.
There, I said it. I didn’t know I was an ageist until last week because, outside of…
How To Be Found
Most of us grow up playing Hide and Seek with friends.
Something interesting happens during the game.
The counting begins:…
The 10-Year Anniversary That Isn’t
I was really nervous because the moment felt so big.
Not because I was afraid to marry her.
But because…
Hope Changes Everything
In the aftermath of my wife leaving, sometimes I would sob like a small child.
I spent so many years…
