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Broken Promises Ended My Marriage—Can Keeping Them Save Yours?
I break promises. I break promises, and then other people sometimes feel let down or betrayed, and then maybe I…
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My 9-Year-Old Accidentally Explained Why His Mom Divorced Me
“What do you want to have for dinner tomorrow?” My wife asked me that a lot and I didn’t like…
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Why I Think Most Married People Get Bored and Stop Wanting Each Other
Author’s Note: I’m not a doctor. I’m not much of an expert on anything. But I’m curious, and I think…
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Why Nonsense and Choosing the Wrong Thing Can’t be Ignored
“Feelings don’t matter.” I don’t think anyone currently or formerly close to me would accuse me of heartlessness, but I’ve…
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You’re Right, Guys—You Can’t Make Women Happy
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Stop Waiting Until it’s Too Late
There was something I wanted to tell someone and I was just waiting for the right time. But then he…
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When You’re Too Comfortable to Know You Shouldn’t Be
Sometimes I wonder whether I’ll die one day from a heart attack or cancer because of things I consume or…
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Text Less, Speak More — Because the Break-Up Sauce Tastes Awful
I want you to imagine a person looking you directly in the eye and saying: “I’m going to kill you.”…
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I Have No Idea What You’re Talking About; Do We Say What We Really Mean?
In January 2016, I published an article titled “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes by the Sink” which became…
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What You Don’t Know Actually Can Hurt You
Disclaimer: I might be clinically insane. That needs to be said upfront, because it’s mathematically possible and I have no…
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