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Some People Are Women, Others Are Men, and it’s Getting Hard to Talk About
My most popular articles tell true stories about my failed marriage and also tend to include a bunch of my…
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You Don’t Have to Get Married, So Maybe You Shouldn’t
Frank: “Hey, I just want to thank you one last time for being here. It’s the best day ever.” Beanie:…
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How to Seduce Your Wife (Because Your Old Single-Guy Tactics Won’t Work)
Google processes more than 60,000 internet searches every second, or nearly 6 billion per day, and the Nos. 1 and…
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Safety and Trust in Relationships: Those Words Don’t Mean What You Think They Mean
Author’s Note: I think the #1 problem in the world is how poorly humans manage their relationships. Even if you…
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Guys: Emotions Matter, Are Normal, and You’re Not a Weak Pussy for Having Them
Author’s Note: I think the #1 problem in the world is how poorly humans manage their relationships. Even if you…
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The Things We Don’t Teach Men (And How It Ruins Everything)
The world fails men. We fail everyone, but we fail men in particular. And that failure leads to a countless…
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I Didn’t Trust My Wife Long Before She Stopped Trusting Me
I trusted my wife with everything I thought was important. I trusted her with everything that mattered to me. I…
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‘Should I Divorce My Wife?’
You two are fighting a lot, sleeping in separate places, not having sex, nor really even talking to each other…
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Can Male Attractiveness and Good Husbandry Coexist?
When I was a kid, I liked big two-story houses with full basements better than other home designs. Three stories…
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What Men Should Learn From Straight Women Choosing Other Women
I think women, with increasing frequency, are choosing romantic relationships with other women over men because of how poorly men…
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