The 3 Tiers of Lying and How Well-Intentioned Lies Can Still Destroy Relationships
How many times have you lied to people you genuinely love and respect in the past few days? If someone…
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What You Don’t Know Actually Can Hurt You
Disclaimer: I might be clinically insane. That needs to be said upfront, because it’s mathematically possible and I have no…
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How Trying to ‘Fit In’ Can Ruin Your Life and Marriage
As far back as I remember, I was taught that some human behaviors are so bad that if you do…
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Why I Support My Friend Who Won’t Change for His Girlfriend
So, I’ve got a friend who appears unwilling to change certain behaviors or sacrifice some of his life preferences for…
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Bad News: You Two Probably Shouldn’t Be Dating
Your relationship is probably doomed. I’m sorry, but it’s true. I’m just playing the percentages. Half of all marriages will…
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The Truth About Love You Might Not Accept
There was a wealthy farmer with two sons. The younger son, dissatisfied with his boring life, went to his dad…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 13
Sooooo. I’ve totally masturbated before. Maybe once. Or maybe 87 million times. Truthfully, I don’t want to talk about it…
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When You Say ‘It’s Not My Fault,’ it Becomes Your Fault
Imagine for a moment that two people plan and carry out an armed bank robbery. Just like you’ve seen in…
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“Be Yourself” is Great Advice We’re Often Too Scared to Follow
Sometimes people tell you to “just be yourself” because they like you and assume other people will, too. They say…
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The Truth About Lying
I looked my mom in the eye and lied to her about watching a movie I wasn’t allowed to watch…
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