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Ageism, Dating and More Ageism
I’m an ageist.
There, I said it. I didn’t know I was an ageist until last week because, outside of…
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What’s Possible Today?
Marital status aside—my life looks a lot like I thought it would when I was growing up.
I live in…
How To Be Found
Most of us grow up playing Hide and Seek with friends.
Something interesting happens during the game.
The counting begins:…
The 10-Year Anniversary That Isn’t
I was really nervous because the moment felt so big.
Not because I was afraid to marry her.
But because…
Hope Changes Everything
In the aftermath of my wife leaving, sometimes I would sob like a small child.
I spent so many years…
An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 8
Boys and girls grow up pretending to not like each other while playing together on schoolyard playgrounds.
The Boys vs.…
The Missing Motivation
People think I’m a good person, but really I’m not.
I don’t mean that I’m bad, like I hurt people…
Who Am I?
I glanced at the calendar.
The year is more than halfway over. That was fast.
Maybe my life is, too.…
The Gray Area
I prefer things to be black and white.
Good or bad.
Right or wrong.
When there are choices to be…
One Year Later, Vol. 2
I’m back in Illinois, where my father lives and where I typically visit twice a year to catch up with…