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Do People’s Feelings Matter? That Depends.
I once wrote that feelings are bullshit.
Except I wrote it more dramatically: “Feelings. Are. Bullshit.”
That probably seems rich…
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How to Start a Blog
Feral Wife asked:
Hi Matt, I have truly enjoyed reading your blog. I found it shortly after asking my husband…
Divorced Parenting Requires a New Kind of Love
Oreoanonymous asked:
I have been watching the struggle of my mother’s partner from his point of view, with only small…
I’m Not Special and It’s Okay
I’m going to die and no one will care.
I don’t mean “no one,” like zero people. Maybe someone will…
Do You Want to Know the Secret, Too?
Everyone wants to know the secret.
But it seems like no one knows it, and if they do, no one’s …
The Magical Power of Writing for Two Years (and a Bit About Marriage)
The date came and went without me noticing.
June 21 was the two-year anniversary of my first post here. You…
Staying Together For the Kids is a Good Enough Reason For Me
It was like I couldn’t catch my breath. I was afraid.
I’d never felt anything like this before. I stood…
Our Souvenirs
The little bedroom down the hall from ours was a nice yellow. We didn’t know whether we were having a…
Waiting for Next Time
One of the hardest parts of divorce is coping with the realization that you have to start over.
Aside from…
ADHD is Real and I Have It
I’ve always been this way, so I never bothered to consider something might be wrong.
It’s not that I procrastinate…