Marriage

A Marriage Alternative: How Considering a Shift to Temporary Marriage Might Benefit Your Relationship
My brain and gut recoiled in disgust at the two words: Temporary Marriage. They were hyperlinked in my email to…
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What Would You Do if You Could Learn Almost Anything You Wanted To?
Somewhere in the world, there exists a person who could objectively and legitimately be called The Smartest Person on Earth.…
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It’s Time: I’m Launching a Podcast Soon
“How are you doin’?” “I’m great, I got that ‘excited/scared’ feeling. Like 98% excited, 2% scared. Or maybe it’s more.…
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If Marriage Were an Airplane, Which Matters More—the Engine or the Wings?
I’m not an aviation expert or aeronautical engineer, but I’m pretty sure airplanes need their engines AND wings both to…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 4
Imagine a pie chart. But not the kind with only a few slices like you might see in classroom presentations…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 3
Author’s Note: Before we begin, you should probably grab a spoonful of sugar. Because this isn’t going to taste very…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 2
You’re not going to like this, but you probably shouldn’t marry your girlfriend or boyfriend. Seriously. You know how it…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 1
You’re in danger. You don’t know you’re in danger because it doesn’t feel scary right now. That’s both good and…
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The Real Reason Why Women Leave Men
“Hey Matt! You’re a big, stupid idiot! “How far do you want us to bend over backward to excuse women’s…
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I Do Not Care About That But I Do Care About You
Author’s Note: A very special thanks to the author of “The Secret Blind”, whose post with this very same title…
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