Being Human

Our Souvenirs
The little bedroom down the hall from ours was a nice yellow. We didn’t know whether we were having a…
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Waiting for Next Time
One of the hardest parts of divorce is coping with the realization that you have to start over. Aside from…
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What If You Did It This Way?
Maybe he thought I was being a silly liberal hippy when I said all anyone really wants is to be…
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ADHD is Real and I Have It
I’ve always been this way, so I never bothered to consider something might be wrong. It’s not that I procrastinate…
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A Funny Little Thing
Because of work stuff, I can’t write today. Soon (tomorrow?) I’m going to tell you about the time a clinical…
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Three Years From Now 
Sarah asked:  “How would you like to see your relationships evolved in the next three years?” … If form holds,…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 12
Sometimes you hear about some married guy banging his coworker or one of his wife’s friends or one of his…
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The Secrets We Uncover
One minute I was standing on a hilltop in the Ohio countryside, scanning miles of farmland in every direction. The…
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When a Boy is Tortured and Murdered in Front of His Parents
When I was little, I sometimes asked my parents what would happen if bad guys ever tried to hurt us.…
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The Things That Matter
One of my favorite scenes in one of my favorite shows had a man sitting on the edge of a…
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