Being Human

Unidentified ADHD Probably Ended My Marriage
Okay. How do I explain this so people can understand? Favor request: Please set aside any preconceived notions, biases or…
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The Difference Between Knowing the Path and Walking the Path
Because I sometimes make bad decisions and do the wrong thing, I got internet-mouthy with readers in the comments of…
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The Worst Thing I’ve Ever Done
Between acting like my wife should hurry up and get over the unexpected death of her father because it was…
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8 Christmas Gift Ideas That Can Save Your Marriage
If you’re a married man, celebrate Christmas and don’t already know what gift you’re giving your wife, I’m inclined to…
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Testing the Medium Waters
Some of my favorite writers choose Medium as their writing platform of choice, and I’ve long admired its graceful simplicity…
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Surprise! I Don’t Completely Suck
“The more you suffer, the more it shows you really care. Right? Yeah!” — The Offspring … Some people think I…
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Hypocrisy, Dating & God Hating Me
So, I met a girl. She seems to like me. It’s weird, because that never happens. (Yes, that’s hyperbole.) But…
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Can We Trust Ourselves After Divorce?
You know it when you hear a song. You know it when you take a drink, read a book, or…
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No Bullshit: Gratitude Changes Everything
If you’re anything like me (and pretty much every other person, ever) you have countless memories of looking forward to…
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When Someday Gets Here
I used to believe depression was code for “weak,” and that criers were wimpy losers. I had heard of people…
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