Matthew Fray

The Pee Problem
Because I’m sometimes unreliable and don’t always follow through with things, I am getting serious about my body for the…
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I Don’t Want to be a Divorce Blogger 
I don’t know what to write about. I don’t just mean right now, even though that’s also true. I mean…
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The Search for Answers: ‘My Husband is an Asshole’
Maybe she was a housewife home alone. Maybe she was crying. “My husband is an asshole,” she typed into Google.…
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Finding Yourself After Divorce (and Other Trauma)
When you first get divorced, everything feels wrong. Virtually every facet of your life changes overnight and your brain and…
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A Vacation From My Problems, Vol. 2
I’ve been away because I went on vacation and had fun and neglected this space and other life responsibilities. It…
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The Unsung Heroes
Is there such a thing as a truly unselfish act? I don’t know. I also don’t care. I’ll let the…
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Stop Pretending Superman Might Lose a Fair Fight
Antivan asks: “If Superman and Godzilla got into a fight, who do you think would win?”  … Superman. Want to…
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The Magic of Common Ground
It was the most barbaric, cheap-shot act I had ever witnessed. Heavyweight boxer Mike Tyson bit off a piece of…
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When One Becomes Two
Ali asks: You talk about the bottom being pulled out from under you a lot and how to move forward…
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The Unknown Soldiers
And the soldier marched. Twenty one steps. Always. At the end of the mat, he turns toward the tomb and…
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