Sexism

Are You Afraid When the Elevator Doors Open?
(Image/The Belltower – the Mount Aloysius College student newspaper) A friend of mine—female—was in a work meeting with a bunch…
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What Being Drugged and Robbed Taught Me About Rape Culture
I’d only been conscious for a half-hour or so, and I was fighting tears because as a general rule, I…
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How Accidental Sexism Ruined My Marriage (and Might be Ruining Yours)
I did, said, and believed things throughout my youth and marriage that were totally sexist—even though I didn’t view them…
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I’m Starting a Cult Called “Your Gender-Politics Cult is Bullshit”
[15-minute read] … “Don’t call my cult bullshit, you pansy-ass mangina!” Sorry, Johnny Men’s Rights. Maybe stop peddling bullshit. “You…
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Some People Are Women, Others Are Men, and it’s Getting Hard to Talk About
My most popular articles tell true stories about my failed marriage and also tend to include a bunch of my…
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The One Where I Defend My Ideas Against Charges of Sexism and a Lack of Credibility
Mary said: It’s still an extremely negative piece that includes such statements as decent men ‘trying their God’s honest best…
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Guys: Emotions Matter, Are Normal, and You’re Not a Weak Pussy for Having Them
Author’s Note: I think the #1 problem in the world is how poorly humans manage their relationships. Even if you…
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The Times When Wives Owe Husbands Sex
I haven’t read the statutes or consulted an attorney, but it’s conceivable to me that a wife could owe her…
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Guest Post: The Thing All Women Do That You Don’t Know About
Editor’s Note: I’m not going to hold men’s feet to the fire for finding women attractive, and acting like it.…
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Decent Men in Indecent Times: Rape, Sex & Locker Room Talk
Not long before my high school graduation, one of my friends said another one of my friends raped her. No…
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