Psychology

What to do When Your Spouse Isn’t Your Soulmate
The person you’re married to—or will marry one day—isn’t your soulmate. [Insert very dramatic orchestra music here.] It sucks, I…
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The Marriage Paradox
They had a chance encounter on 5th Avenue in New York City. The boy and the girl in the movie…
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How to Seduce Your Wife (Because Your Old Single-Guy Tactics Won’t Work)
Google processes more than 60,000 internet searches every second, or nearly 6 billion per day, and the Nos. 1 and…
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The Cancer of Misunderstanding
Remember when we were kids? Afraid of getting on the big roller coasters. Afraid of jumping off the high-dive at…
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Guys: Emotions Matter, Are Normal, and You’re Not a Weak Pussy for Having Them
Author’s Note: I think the #1 problem in the world is how poorly humans manage their relationships. Even if you…
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Can We Use Personality Matching and Astrology to Have the Perfect Partner and Marriage? Kind Of!
Someone asked me what I thought about using astrology as a compass for romantic compatibility. Fair question, I think. No…
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Influence Your Relationship Using the 6 Principles of Persuasion
Most divorce and breakups could be avoided if the partner most dedicated to the relationship could effectively persuade or influence…
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She Divorced Me Because I Was Nicer to Strangers Than I Was to Her
I was usually nicer to strangers than I was to my wife. People I didn’t know and would never see…
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We Can’t Always Get What We Want, But if We Try Sometimes…
You and outside forces are engaged in a never-ending dance—working in harmony, or against each other—to motivate your spouse or…
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What Screws Us Up Most in Life
There’s at least one missing child. A beautiful little thing I would love intensely. Maybe this would be the first…
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