Marriage

The Secrets We Uncover
One minute I was standing on a hilltop in the Ohio countryside, scanning miles of farmland in every direction. The…
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Why I Wrote “An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands”
“Wow. Your marriage is a complete replica of mine except I haven’t walked out yet and you sound a bit…
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The Eureka Effect: How to Save Marriages
I was crying all the time and sleeping in the guest room. It was a real shit show. My marriage…
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A Time for Fighting
If I kill a pedestrian with my car while obeying all laws and cooperating with law enforcement, I am unlikely…
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The Human Experience
I want to have sex with her. But I’m also afraid she’ll think I’m no good at it and tell…
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Your Kids Are Going to Get Divorced Unless We Fix This
I’ve written and published more than 400 posts here. Many of them are about divorce and marriage because divorce was…
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I Don’t Feel It ‘Til It Hurts Sometimes
Wives and girlfriends get upset with their husbands and boyfriends because it often seems as if the men in their…
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Advice for Women “In That Place”
Tracy asks: Do you have advice for women who are in “that place”? You know… The place where you still…
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Two Years Later
I always thought anniversaries were a little dumb. I don’t mean celebrating wedding anniversaries or birthdays. And I don’t mean…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 11
When a conjoined twin dies, their attached sibling usually dies soon after. In most cases, one can’t live without the…
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