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The Moments When Men Lose Their Wives
Our relationships work like a weight scale. Like a math equation. With every person we know, there’s a ledger. There…
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A Marriage Alternative: How Considering a Shift to Temporary Marriage Might Benefit Your Relationship
My brain and gut recoiled in disgust at the two words: Temporary Marriage. They were hyperlinked in my email to…
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What Would You Do if You Could Learn Almost Anything You Wanted To?
Somewhere in the world, there exists a person who could objectively and legitimately be called The Smartest Person on Earth.…
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The 3 Tiers of Lying and How Well-Intentioned Lies Can Still Destroy Relationships
How many times have you lied to people you genuinely love and respect in the past few days? If someone…
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7 Steps to Rebuilding Trust in Your Relationship After Betrayal and Lies
Editor’s Note: The following is a guest post written by my friend Jay Pyatt, who mentors men struggling with various…
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If Marriage Were an Airplane, Which Matters More—the Engine or the Wings?
I’m not an aviation expert or aeronautical engineer, but I’m pretty sure airplanes need their engines AND wings both to…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 4
Imagine a pie chart. But not the kind with only a few slices like you might see in classroom presentations…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 3
Author’s Note: Before we begin, you should probably grab a spoonful of sugar. Because this isn’t going to taste very…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 2
You’re not going to like this, but you probably shouldn’t marry your girlfriend or boyfriend. Seriously. You know how it…
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An Open Letter to Young People Planning to Marry Someday, Vol. 1
You’re in danger. You don’t know you’re in danger because it doesn’t feel scary right now. That’s both good and…
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