Love

When You’re Too Comfortable to Know You Shouldn’t Be
Sometimes I wonder whether I’ll die one day from a heart attack or cancer because of things I consume or…
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Text Less, Speak More — Because the Break-Up Sauce Tastes Awful
I want you to imagine a person looking you directly in the eye and saying: “I’m going to kill you.”…
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I Have No Idea What You’re Talking About; Do We Say What We Really Mean?
In January 2016, I published an article titled “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes by the Sink” which became…
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What You Don’t Know Actually Can Hurt You
Disclaimer: I might be clinically insane. That needs to be said upfront, because it’s mathematically possible and I have no…
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How Marital Affairs Happen: The Beautiful Stranger I Wanted to Sleep With While I Was Married
Because I am sometimes a walking cliché who struggles with controlling negative emotion, I found myself sitting at a bar…
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The Myth of the Nagging Wife — It’s Invisible Burns That Actually End Marriages
We sometimes hear husbands complain about their stupid, bitchy, nagging wives. Some of them probably are married to petty, unkind…
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The Friday Reclamation Project
Five years ago today, I didn’t want to go home. Our entire lives, most of us look forward to weekends.…
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Divorce or Stay? Using Direct vs. Circumstantial Evidence to Decide
There’s direct evidence that I was a crap husband and that my ex-wife made the right choice in ending our…
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8 Ways Good People Invalidate Their Partners and Ruin Relationships
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The 7 Life-Changing Benefits of Treating My Ex-Wife Well After Divorce
The worst day of my life wasn’t the day the divorce was finalized. It wasn’t even the day she packed…
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