Husband

Could the Loss of Tribe be Jeopardizing Your Marriage?
Because I’m an only child, my friends have been hugely important to me forever, and I think it was an…
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Why Marriage Counseling is a Bad Idea, Vol. 2
I’ve been to marriage counseling twice. By that I mean, in two separate instances during my marriage, I agreed to…
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Why Marriage Counseling is a Bad Idea, Vol. 1
A wife asked her husband to read my ‘Shitty Husbands’ posts, which happens more than I’d like. (Because passive-aggressively telling…
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Do You Want to Know the Secret, Too?
Everyone wants to know the secret. But it seems like no one knows it, and if they do, no one’s …
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 12
Sometimes you hear about some married guy banging his coworker or one of his wife’s friends or one of his…
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The Search for Answers: ‘My Husband is an Asshole’
Maybe she was a housewife home alone. Maybe she was crying. “My husband is an asshole,” she typed into Google.…
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Good People Ruin Marriage
Any time I’d hear about a couple getting a divorce, I always assumed one of them did something bad. I’d…
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“What should I write in my letter to my husband to make him stay?”
“What should I write in my letter to my husband to make him stay?” she typed into the search box.…
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How to Own Your Shit and Never Be a Victim Again
Eilene asks: “Have you ever thought (even if briefly or secretly) that your divorce was more her fault than yours?…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 9
Sometimes your wife cries in bed alone because she wants to hang out with you and you’d rather do anything…
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