Divorce

In Defense of Men
Men aren’t so bad. We lead nations. Win wars. Build skyscrapers. We fix things. Protect things. Create things. We are…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 4
She’s going to leave you. And even if she doesn’t, she’s going to want to. She’s going to fantasize about…
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From Now On Our Troubles Will Be Miles Away
The stockings are hung by the chimney with care. Minus one. The Christmas tree is up. No lights or ornaments…
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The First Date, Vol. 2
My shirt was untucked so she wouldn’t see the pleats. I was running late from work and hadn’t had time…
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The In-Laws
The losses in divorce are great. There’s a huge pile of them. And a lot of collateral damage. With the…
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How are you Doing?
I get asked this all the time. I’m betting you do too. I’m constantly asking it myself. Constantly answering it…
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Pottymouth Training
It must have been between songs, because I tend to play music loudly, even with my five-year-old son in the…
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My Son’s Other House
The drive took one and a half songs. My five-year-old sang along with both because he has good taste like…
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The Reclamation Project
My wife moved out six months and four days ago. On April 1. I felt like a fool. But it…
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The Phantom Pain
It was a typical winter day in Ohio. Around 9 a.m. Co-workers were milling around, getting coffee and chatting. I…
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