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Do You Love Your Spouse Enough?: The Uncomfortable Truth About Who Should Rank #1 Among Our Spouses, Children & Parents
Where does your spouse or romantic partner rank in your life? Take all the time you need to think before…
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You Don’t Have to Get Married, So Maybe You Shouldn’t
Frank: “Hey, I just want to thank you one last time for being here. It’s the best day ever.” Beanie:…
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Guys: Emotions Matter, Are Normal, and You’re Not a Weak Pussy for Having Them
Author’s Note: I think the #1 problem in the world is how poorly humans manage their relationships. Even if you…
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The Things We Don’t Teach Men (And How It Ruins Everything)
The world fails men. We fail everyone, but we fail men in particular. And that failure leads to a countless…
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Influence Your Relationship Using the 6 Principles of Persuasion
Most divorce and breakups could be avoided if the partner most dedicated to the relationship could effectively persuade or influence…
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I Figured Out Who To Blame For My Divorce
After an 18-month downward spiral of misery hallmarked by sexlessness, sleeping in separate bedrooms, and crying more than any middle-class…
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How to Be Comfortable Alone on Valentine’s Day
If I’m hospitalized or incapacitated from a car accident or emergency health problem, my ex-wife will be the first person…
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Is He the One?: How to Know Whether You Should Marry Him
I used to leave a drinking glass by the kitchen sink instead of putting it in the dishwasher, and then…
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How to Determine Your Worth as a Person
Let’s pretend I possess the world’s largest diamond collection. Because diamonds have high market value, I would be “worth” a…
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When Your Spouse Dies and You Miss Their Dirty Socks on the Floor
After her husband died unexpectedly, the dirty socks and pants she used to find thrown on the bedroom floor became…
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