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Hey, Is Anybody Out There?
Hey everyone. This is just a little test to see if any of you are still connected to this blog.…
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Here’s How They Chop Hot Women in Half
Spoiler alert #1: When magicians perform the Saw-Woman-in-Half trick on stage, he or she is not actually sawing a human…
Love vs. Respect—Which is More Critical for Making Relationships Last?
I didn’t respect my wife even though I loved her a lot. And even though my wife loved me back,…
How Accidental Sexism Ruined My Marriage (and Might be Ruining Yours)
I did, said, and believed things throughout my youth and marriage that were totally sexist—even though I didn’t view them…
3 Helpful and 3 Unhelpful Things You Can Say to People Suffering from Anxiety
Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from my friend and colleague, Jenee Day.
Jenee is a long-time anxiety sufferer…
Making Sense of Your Emotions After Divorce and Beyond
I walked into my ex-wife’s house following a quick knock as I do a few times every week to pick…
The Missing Ingredient that Ruins Valentine’s Day (and Every Other Day)
Flowers are pretty and smell nice. They make nice gifts as a symbolic gesture to those you care about. Unless,…
The 3 Eye-Roll Inducing (But Absolutely True) Steps to Finding Happiness
‘Happiness’ is kind of a bullshit word because, not unlike the word ‘love,’ it can hold different meaning for different…
Always Something There to Remind Me
There’s something appalling—nearly unforgivable—about the things we forget, like, 98-ish percent of our known existence.
We forget that we breathe.…
She Divorced Me Because I Tried to Fix Her Problems
In nine years of marriage, it’s safe to assume my ex-wife and I ate dinner together between 2,500 and 3,000…
To Find What’s Missing, Look in the Gaps
There’s what we believe. And then there’s whatever is absolutely 100-percent true and real.
In the gap between our beliefs…
