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The Art of Getting to Tomorrow When Everything’s Wrong
It was exactly like those initial weeks after divorce.
I couldn’t describe what was wrong. None of my feelings made…
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The 4th Wedding Anniversary (That Wasn’t)
Yesterday would have been lucky-number 13.
My wife and I celebrating 13 years of marital bliss.
Only we didn’t. Because…
The Milestones
Right after your wife leaves you and you’re crying and barely able to breathe, the only thing you want to…
Finding Yourself After Divorce (and Other Trauma)
When you first get divorced, everything feels wrong.
Virtually every facet of your life changes overnight and your brain and…
I’m On Drugs
I don’t know if it’s my third straight week on antibiotics, the narcotic painkillers, or all of the things in…
The Inconvenient Truth About Divorce One Year Later
It makes you feel weak.
It makes you feel like a chump.
In manspeak, it makes you feel like a…
The Separation Anniversary
She took off her wedding ring one year ago today.
That’s when I learned she did, anyway.
It was Easter…
A Glimpse
There’s a U.S. military arsenal not far from where I live—adjacent to the small township in which my ex-wife grew…