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How Marital Affairs Happen: The Beautiful Stranger I Wanted to Sleep With While I Was Married
Because I am sometimes a walking cliché who struggles with controlling negative emotion, I found myself sitting at a bar…
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The Myth of the Nagging Wife — It’s Invisible Burns That Actually End Marriages
We sometimes hear husbands complain about their stupid, bitchy, nagging wives.
Some of them probably are married to petty, unkind…
The Friday Reclamation Project
Five years ago today, I didn’t want to go home.
Our entire lives, most of us look forward to weekends.…
Divorce or Stay? Using Direct vs. Circumstantial Evidence to Decide
There’s direct evidence that I was a crap husband and that my ex-wife made the right choice in ending our…
8 Ways Good People Invalidate Their Partners and Ruin Relationships
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The 7 Life-Changing Benefits of Treating My Ex-Wife Well After Divorce
The worst day of my life wasn’t the day the divorce was finalized.
It wasn’t even the day she packed…
Please Help Me Answer These Important Questions
Of the many questions sent to my email inbox (some of which go unanswered—I’m so sorry for that), there are…
What to do When Your Spouse Isn’t Your Soulmate
The person you’re married to—or will marry one day—isn’t your soulmate.
[Insert very dramatic orchestra music here.]
It sucks, I…
The Secret to Long-Term Compatibility in Dating and Marriage Isn’t How Alike We Are
com·pat·i·bil·i·ty
noun
a state in which two things are able to exist or occur together without problem or conflict.
a…
How Trying to ‘Fit In’ Can Ruin Your Life and Marriage
As far back as I remember, I was taught that some human behaviors are so bad that if you do…
