Family

Should We Get Married? (Part 1)
In Wonder Woman lore—including the 2017 Gal Gadot film—there exists an island of Amazonian women unknown and invisible to the…
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I Didn’t Know Ponds and Cigars Could Do That
That’s my grandparents on their wedding day about 62 years ago. It’s one of my favorite photos. The handsome gentleman…
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Pain is History’s Most Effective Influencer of Human Behavior
I don’t know how many times I had to be burned by the hot steam that escapes a simmering pot…
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The Search for Beauty in Divorce
Six short years ago, my wife was selfishly choosing her emotions over the wellbeing of our family. She was breaking…
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What Would You Do if You Could Learn Almost Anything You Wanted To?
Somewhere in the world, there exists a person who could objectively and legitimately be called The Smartest Person on Earth.…
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If Marriage Were an Airplane, Which Matters More—the Engine or the Wings?
I’m not an aviation expert or aeronautical engineer, but I’m pretty sure airplanes need their engines AND wings both to…
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The Real Reason Why Women Leave Men
“Hey Matt! You’re a big, stupid idiot! “How far do you want us to bend over backward to excuse women’s…
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You’re Right, Guys—You Can’t Make Women Happy
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 14
Because I failed to create any type of plan or structure to ensure preparation and acknowledgment of special occasions like…
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The Cancer of Misunderstanding
Remember when we were kids? Afraid of getting on the big roller coasters. Afraid of jumping off the high-dive at…
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