Relationships

I Don’t Feel It ‘Til It Hurts Sometimes
Wives and girlfriends get upset with their husbands and boyfriends because it often seems as if the men in their…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 11
When a conjoined twin dies, their attached sibling usually dies soon after. In most cases, one can’t live without the…
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How to Crowdsource Book-Writing Ideas
I’m going to die. I could be well over halfway to the end as I sit here and type. And…
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An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 6
You think you’re being nice. But you’re not. You think you’re doing her a favor. But you’re not. You think…
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Being Nice Isn’t Enough
For years, I wouldn’t hear it. The complaining. Some men call it “nagging.” Or “bitching.” Or “PMS-ing.” She must be…
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Love is a Choice
Stay with the same person long enough and you’re going to feel it. Monotony. Staleness. Boredom. At times, you’ll feel…
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In Defense of Men
Men aren’t so bad. We lead nations. Win wars. Build skyscrapers. We fix things. Protect things. Create things. We are…
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The Reclamation Project
My wife moved out six months and four days ago. On April 1. I felt like a fool. But it…
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The Phantom Pain
It was a typical winter day in Ohio. Around 9 a.m. Co-workers were milling around, getting coffee and chatting. I…
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The Write Stuff: Lessons From the End of a Marriage
Their 10-year marriage ended with a text message. A marriage she believed to be wonderful. Then, one day, one week,…
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